25 March 2024
Some local artist followed the river water on foot, in wellies, trailing their way through the stream so that the roads and railways and other obstacles meant nothing. The truest following, tracing the flow of the water perfectly. Yet, I welcome the searching, and the option of finding myself lost. The dead ends jolt, they turn you backwards and make you start seeking again, and they make you miss whole portions of the river route, but sometimes these are the parts best left alone. Little wildernesses, where even the birdsong seems hushed.
The river flows through the park where, as teenagers, we would drink, and more. For the “more”, it was an ancient oracle, a symmetrical butterfly of watery wings, a teller of the old secrets. Later, it served as the moat to a building where the course of my youthful marriage can be traced – from functioning to ending, but never flourishing. As my children grew, we followed part of the river for the first time, and found fairy realms across stepping stones. The Great Bird Wars issued from its banks – and swords from hazel trees. I found a job in River Searching, but for a different, larger river, to which my river served as a tributary. I had grown out of her.
I found her again by accident, many years later. I had traipsed through the whole of Birmingham, looking – but there she was all along. Waiting. So, from her banks, downstream, I decided to follow her back to her source.